Gottman × Connection Playbook

Questions that
bring you closer

A research-backed card game for couples. Pick a deck, draw a card, go deeper.


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24 curated conversation sets — pick by mood

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Ask open-ended questions. Make exploratory statements ("It sounds like…"). Express understanding before offering your own perspective. Replace correctness with curiosity.

How to Play

Ground rules from Gottman research

Love Languages

Give in their language, not just your own

Rituals & Rhythms

Daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, annual

Special Situations

Long-distance, group hangouts, introvert/extrovert

Hard Conversations

How to navigate conflict with grace

Red Flags & Boundaries

What to watch for · how to protect the relationship

Quick Reference

Decision matrices and problem-solving guides

Wisdom

The heart of Christ-centred connection

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